For divorce to happen there are usually some fairly standard reasons. Your spouse may be cheating. You may be cheating. It could be a continuous fight over finances and spending habits. Many times the divorcing couple simply has had enough and believes that a fresh start outside of the marriage is needed.
Divorce court sees a lot of different reasons for a couple to seek a separation and divorce. Yours may not be based on physical, mental or emotional abuse but it does not make your reasons for divorcing any less valid. You are an adult and you can make your own decisions.
In order for divorce to happen, each party must retain the services of a divorce attorney. Contrary to popular belief, you do not need an attorney if it is an uncontested seperation and there are many online divorce forms that you and your spouse fill out and then submit to the court. If there are children involved or there is going to be a dispute over property or finances, then you will need to contact a lawyer to help ensure that you are properly represented.
The first step to becoming separated divorced is to make plans to move out of the home. One of you has to move out of the home and you have to be living apart for a set amount of days. Divorce laws vary from state to state so you need to check with your attorney on how long you and your partner must be living apart before the divorce papers can be filed.
During this time of separation, both parties need to get their finances in order. In uncontested divorces both parties come to mutual agreements on real estate, custody, child support and debts.
If you and your partner are not able to come to an agreement peacefully, then you may require the help of a divorce mediation professional. The professional will sit down with both you and your spouse, along with your attorneys, and try to come to an agreement over disputed items.
If you can come to an agreement it is best for everyone. If you cannot, then it will have to go before a judge who will make the decision for you and your spouse.
Once the paperwork for divorce has been filed, it is only a matter of time before it comes in front of a judge and he or she dissolves the marriage and approves the paperwork. Once the judge has signed the seperation decree, you are now officially a single person once again and free to date or see whomever you wish.